10 Tips for Emotionally Supporting Athletes, Right Now by Positive Coaching Alliance Staff Positive Coaching Alliance August 17, 2020 | 2 minutes, 52 seconds read Check out more Positive Coaching Alliance video content on the Positive Coaching Alliance SportsEngine Play Channel Fall sports are all over the place. Some teams are moving full speed ahead, fingers crossed; others have cancelled in advance, to short-circuit the misery; most are edging forward gradually, crafting contingency plans, developing hybrid practice models, and trying to stay on top of the news, especially anything Covid-related. As much as the uncertainty rattles coaches, it’s even more challenging for kids, many of whom rely on their sports teams for…everything: friendship, exercise, consistency, fun, motivation, competition, and for some, a sense of family.While COVID-19 has decimated sports schedules and upended practice plans, coaches retain the power to help kids grow. Now more than ever, children and teenagers need responsible adults in their lives who can model good behavior and act as bulwarks against the chaos. If you got into coaching to help kids, you may be having your greatest impact now. Here are ten ways coaches can support their athletes, with thanks to these experts and practitioners who shared their counsel: Megan Bartlett, founder of We Coach; Bobbi Moran, athletic director at Kent Place School; Ashley Quinn, high-school lacrosse coach; Richard Weissbourd, co-director of Making Caring Common at Harvard; and all the good people at the Aspen Institute Project Play.1. Check-in regularlyYou can do this through group texts and emails with the whole team or with team captains. (But texts and emails between you and a single player should be avoided, in keeping with the need to maintain appropriate boundaries.) Demonstrate sincere interest without fixating on how they’re managing their workouts. Don’t be afraid to ask, “How are you feeling? How can I help?”2. Create and uphold routinesTo the extent you can, develop procedures for the team that they can count on, as you would in ordinary times. These could include a warm-up and cool-down series, regular drills, a weekly strategy talk, etc. Give them predictability when it’s lacking everywhere else.3. Over-communicateTell players what you know, what you don’t know, when you might know, and what you expect will happen in the weeks ahead. Being mum during these times will only generate worry and invite conflict. Keep parents in the loop, too.4. Be honest and reassuringUncertainty and change are the guiding principles of the time, in sports and everywhere else. Your players will know they can count on you if you’re truthful, especially about the unknowables, while also projecting competence. About new hygiene procedures, for example, you might say, “We don’t know exactly how this is going to work, but we’ll follow the guidelines as best we can and modify them as the situation evolves. We’ll figure this out together.”5. Help them connect with teammates.Kids join teams to play and compete with their friends; sports are inherently social. Coaches can encourage team connection several ways: For squads that are meeting in-person, include time at the end of practice for kids to talk amongst themselves. (Coaches: listen, but let them lead.) For teams trapped online, hold Zoom workouts. Set up Google hangouts or Zoom gatherings just for players. Assign a sports movie for all to watch and then discuss, virtually if necessary. Invite individuals to share their workouts as a way to inspire others. Read the Original Article at Positive Coaching Alliance tags in this article Coach Parent Positive Coaching Alliance Return to Play